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Dating Violence

Statistics


1 in 11 female and 1 in 15 male high school students reported experiencing physical dating violence in the last year. Source: CDC About Teen Dating Violence | CDC.


1 in 9 female and 1 in 36 male high school students reported experiencing sexual dating violence in the last year. Source: CDC About Teen Dating Violence | CDC.


26% of women and 15% of men reported experiencing intimate partner violence before the age of 18. Source: CDC About Teen Dating Violence | CDC.

 

Domestic Violence
Stop Domestic Violence

Behaviors


  • Physical violence
  • Examples: Hitting, kicking, pushing


  • Sexual violence
  • Examples: Forcing a partner to take part in a sex act, texting sexual pictures


  • Psychological abuse
  • Examples: Name-calling, insulting, threatening, always wanting to know whereabouts, tracking all the time


  • Stalking
  • Examples: Repeated unwanted or threatening phone calls or messages, showing up


     * These can occur in person or electronically

Source: CDC About Teen Dating Violence | CDC


Signs of a Healthy Relationship:


Mutual Respect – Value your partners boundaries and differences

Trust and Honesty


Good communication – Allowing your partner to share their thoughts, beliefs and opinions without interruption


Understanding – Being able to see and accept your partners point of view even if you don’t agree


Individuality – Respecting your partners integrity and individual identity


Stop Domestic Violence

How to Get Help or Talk to Someone

Help is free and confidential


St Luke’s Safe Place – Rich:  619-933-8468


Love is Respect Hotline – 866-331-9474

Text Love to 22522

Live Chat: loveisrespect.org


National Domestic Violence Hotline – 800-799-7233

Text Start to 88788

Live Chat: thehotline.org


Dating Matters Resource:

Dating Matters®|Funded Programs|Violence Prevention|Injury Center|CDC


Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network (RAINN) National Sexual Assault Hotline

Call 800-656-HOPE (4673) to be connected with a trained staff member from a sexual assault service provider in your area.


Visit Online Hotline (rainn.org) to chat one-on-one with a trained RAINN support specialist 24/7



How to Help a Friend:

  • Believe them
  • Do not judge or criticize their decisions
  • Help them develop a safety plan https://ncadv.org/personalized-safety-plan
  • Offer to go to a service provider with them (Get referrals from St Luke’s Safe Place program – Rich: 619-933-8468
  • Continue to be their friend even if they choose to stay in the relationship
  • Understand your friend may be feeling lonely, scared, confused, upset
  • Walk with them, accompany them